Chapter 6: Stepping Out in a New Direction

 

        When I first became interested in philosophy, it was in the spring of 1980 during my sophomore year at West Virginia State College.  I needed to take Introduction to Philosophy because, in defiance of the directions given to me by Oliver Hogue, I changed my major from Mass Communications to Psychology.  Because of an experience with a Calligraphy class I could not pass, a required class for Mass Communications, I would not be able to complete my degree.  The department would not let me substitute another class, and so I had to do something.  Now, a student in this position would be able to avail herself of the provisions of the Americans with Disabilities Act.  My experience was about a decade before the ADA became law.

I was taking Psychology in a lecture hall with 150 people, and I was making the best grade in the class!  The professor said I was in the wrong major.  I already knew that.  My ACT score in Social Sciences was my highest, at 29. The leaders of this group gave out these “revelations” with no feeling at all for what people's actual gifts were. I needed to be in a different field.  It was apparent I would not be able to graduate in Communications anyway, so I changed majors.  As a result, I had to take Introduction to Philosophy.

Pastor Hogue had previously said to me that I should not take Philosophy.  His exact words were, “It will mess with your mind.”  I honestly do not know if he really thought I could not handle it, or if he was trying to impede me from succeeding at something I would really be good at.  I signed up for the class with trepidation, but when we got in there I did fine.  I found it fascinating.  It was like 4th of July fireworks went off in my head.  I was really excited by it.  I took three or four Philosophy classes at State, and a couple, cross-listed, at the University of Charleston.  My professor there, Dr. Robert Newman, told me he thought I had what it took to pursue a career in philosophy.  He obviously did not see me the way Oliver Hogue did!

My first philosophy instructor was a guy named Tom Kinney.  Tom was a young man of about 30, single, and a devout Catholic.  He was a staunch Aristotelian.  We used An Introduction to Philosophy by Jacques Maritain.  Tom was a nice guy but a kind of boring lecturer, but the subject matter enthralled me. In my almost 18 years as a college professor, I am sure there have been students who thought I was also boring.  I do remember Tom was surprised that I was an evangelical.  He had assumed, from some of the things I said in class, that I was Catholic.  Little did I know that 32 years later I would become Catholic.

        I was not a bit convinced that Aristotelianism was the true philosophy, as Tom put it.  But I did like Aristotle and now every week my ethics students read one of the books of Aristotle’s Nicomachean Ethics.  There was no philosophy major or minor at West Virginia State, and the philosophy courses were overseen by the Psychology department, so Tom’s office was on the same floor as my other teachers, and most of the students in our department knew him.  One evening, during a break in a class, someone said, “Hey, did you hear about Tom?”  No, I had not heard.  “He resigned.  He is going into the priesthood.”  I cannot say I was surprised.

The relevance of this to this little volume is this—Tom Kinney awakened something in me which led me to pursue philosophy farther.  That is what led me to seek out a relationship with D. Elton Trueblood.

        I stopped to meet Trueblood in July 1982, at his study, Teague Library, on the campus of Earlham College in Richmond Indiana.  My daughter, decades later, spent four years on the Earlham faculty.  Teague is still one of my favorite places, and I have tried, before COVID-19, to spend a couple of days there each year in personal solitude and reflection.  I was so enamored with this library from the first time I saw it.

My expectation was to meet Dr. Trueblood, get his autograph, and be on my way.  I had no idea our meeting would last most of the afternoon.  He said, after we had visited over an hour, “I can see that you have an unusually keen mind.  I would like to have you come here, study at Earlham School of Religion, and help us with the Yokefellows ministry.”

I had told him my primary interest was philosophy more than religion, and despite that, the first time he met me, he discerned the gift of ministry I had, which neither Oliver Hogue nor Loran Helm would affirm.  He recommended me for the pastorate of a small Quaker meeting near to the seminary.  I was not ready, and they did not call me, but he sensed my calling from God right away.  I could not understand why—knowing me for an hour—he could see that when those who were in a pastoral relationship with me could not—or would not.

A year later, I became the Minister of Christian Education at Friends Memorial Church in Muncie, Indiana.  I still was not ready, and I made a lot of mistakes.  But I grew.  I learned as much about preaching from observing Richard P. Newby as I did in seminary, if not more.  It was a hard year, but I am thankful for it.

The contrast between Loran Helm and Elton Trueblood could not be starker.  One was a seminary drop out.  (Maybe I should not be so critical, I dropped out twice, but I eventually completed a Masters and a Doctorate from two different seminaries.)  The other was a graduate of Harvard Divinity School with a Ph.D. from Johns Hopkins.  One had written one book, the other had written thirty-seven.  One was all about emotion and spontaneity and the other was the epitome of discipline and structure.

The last contrast I mentioned was one which I struggled with a good bit.  It took me a good deal of time to appreciate the difference.  The cognitive dissonance created between these contrasting styles put me in a difficult place.  I would have been better off had I left Helm and his fellowship behind me then and there.  I was not, however, in an emotional state healthy enough to be able to do so.

An important event in the fellowship surrounding Loran Helm were times of what he called Waiting on God.  I spoke in chapter 5 about his idea that a great outpouring of the Holy Spirit would come if people could come “into one accord.”  This is based on a faulty interpretation of a faulty translation of the biblical account of the day of Pentecost in Acts chapter 2.  To make this happen, he would gather in a hotel meeting room with a few hundred people, several times a year, to worship and wait.  There were not set times for these Waitings to occur.  There might be one two straight months and then not again for a year.  It was all scheduled as he said God had revealed to him, the dates, and the location.

There was no program.  He would have a list in his Bible of things like, prayer, preaching, singing, revelation, etc., and he would ask God to show him what was supposed to happen next, and then that is what we would do.  The preaching was horrendous, and the music was equally outstanding in the other direction.  I have never been to any kind of worship gathering where there was anywhere near that quality and quantity of musical talent in one place.  The closest would have been the chapel at the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary or the annual Church of God campmeeting in Anderson, Indiana.

There would be altar calls and pleas for people to make things right with God and right with one another because he just knew, he thought, that if we did that, that another Pentecost would happen.  There were times when he would say something like “someone here has cancer,” and he would pray for their healing.  There were times when he would declare that someone was to move somewhere, or someone was to marry someone or assume a certain line of work.  All of this was despite, as I quoted him in the last chapter, his insistence that he did not tell people what to do.  I cannot relate the amount of heartbreak, and trauma, which this man inflicted on people, often without their consent to even give input into what decisions they should make.  I would not have admitted this at the time, but this was a cult!

Now, if I ever met two people who were complete opposites, it would be Loran Helm and Elton Trueblood.  Both had robust egos.  But one was absolutely committed to spontaneity and not planning, and the other was the epitome of discipline and routine.  One was shrouded in secrecy and communicated mostly through intermediaries, the other was direct, approachable, and kindly took time for the many people who wrote or visited him each week.

I used to hear Helm say things like, “you cannot be a person who analyzes anything and expect God to be able to use you.”  I think he would have been an extreme P if he took the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator.  Nothing was planned in advance.  This carried over and was handed down to Oliver Hogue, whose book was called Mission Without Strategy. 

Elton Trueblood was, in contrast, a thinker.  Elton used to say all the time, “the Christian’s task is to out-think the opposition.” 

Loran Helm had an unusual personality which he mistook for the way God wanted everyone to be.  Recently someone chided me for becoming Catholic, suggesting that there is no work of the Holy Spirit in the Catholic church.  That is not true, but I think the person who said this to me was basing the presence of the Holy Spirit on a certain emotional flavor.  In many people’s minds, the awareness of that flavor is equated with the presence of the Spirit.  I learned as a Quaker that this is not exactly true, for some of the times when the Spirit’s presence was most clearly visible were times when the only thing going on was a deep, profound silence!

Elton was a disciplined, patterned person.  Jim Newby writes in the prologue of his biography, Elton Trueblood: Believer, Teacher & Friend, describing how he would see Elton each day,

 

As the door opens, he is smiling.  “Good morning, Kathy and Jim.  How are you today?” His voice is always encouraging.  He places the letters on his secretary’s desk, takes off his hat, slips off his coat, and carefully puts them on one end of the couch while he sits down on the other.  Elton Trueblood is a patterned man.  This is a routine that I could perform blindfolded. [1]

 

That patterned life was, I believe, the secret to Elton’s success and the impact he made on others.  There were several young Quaker ministers and leaders he had taken under his wing.  Jim Newby, Paul Anderson, and Richard Foster were notable among them.  I was privileged to be among this group, even though my literary output has been nowhere near any of theirs.  For Elton, though, the idea was to nurture those who would come along and be in leadership after him.  It was the spiritual equivalent of his famous line about planting a tree, under the shade of which one knows they will never sit.

The ministry of Yokefellows International was based on this idea of the patterned life.  The Thursday lunches of the local Yokefellows group at First Friends Meeting in Richmond, Indiana, drew men of all expressions of the Christian faith to share and fellowship.  Most of the time the speaker was, by intention, not a professional minister.  The entire concern of Yokefellows was what Elton called “The Ministry of Common Life.”  He wanted educators, bankers, doctors, carpenters, and virtually every other occupation to have a sense of Christian vocation, using their line of work as an opportunity to share the Christian message with others.

I will say, as I have grown in my own theological life in the four decades since I was part of Yokefellows, I wish the weekly luncheons had more of a feminine presence.  I do not believe there was intentional sexism, because the annual Yokefellow Conference not only was attended by Christian men and women, but some of the Saturday speakers have been women, most notably Mary Cosby.

The lunch began promptly at noon on Thursdays.  The members of the United Society of Friends Women from First Friends Meeting provided our meal, and the proceeds went to their mission involvement.  As far as I know, Yokefellows did not make a dime.  The meal was two dollars and those eating simply left the money on the table.  Around 12:30, Elton would introduce guests and then introduce our speaker, who shared about their faith journey for about fifteen minutes, followed by question-and-answer, and about 12:55, the group would disperse.  This format was used every Thursday.

The other aspect of Yokefellows which was exciting was the annual Yokefellow conference in March.  This took place on the campus of Earlham College, usually when the college was on spring break. On Friday evening would be the Yokefellow Banquet in the dining hall of Earlham Hall.  Many excellent speakers from around the country would come to speak at this event—with the same aim as our local Yokefellows group, nurturing people for the ministry of common life.

The dining hall in Earlham Hall was a particularly apt place for this event.  The mantle, which hung above the fireplace had an inspiring quote, “They gathered sticks, kindled a fire, and left it burning.”  This was a quote from the captain’s log of the British ship, Woodhouse.  This ship was set to bring a group of Quakers to America when it needed to dock for some repairs off the English coast. The captain wrote about how, rather than stay on the ship, these Quakers went ashore to see whom they could evangelize.  The entire quote said, “The ministers of Christ were not idle.  They gathered sticks, kindled a fire, and left it burning.” 

Every year the program for the banquet was the same.  Elton Trueblood was a patterned man, and when he found something which worked, he stayed with it.  For the Friday banquet there was always the same rendition of an aria (from Matthew and Isaiah) from Handel’s Messiah:

 

He shall feed his flock like

A shepherd

And He shall gather

The lambs with his arm

With his arm

Come unto Him

All ye that labor

And learn of Him

For He is meek

And lowly of heart

 

And ye shall find rest

Unto your souls

 

The last part was the most important. Take his yoke upon you.  Raised as an Iowa farm boy in the early 1900s, Elton knew that yokes were placed on teams of animals.  An insight into this passage in Matthew 11 was what we saw as “Christ’s clearest call to commitment.”  We do not go it alone, Jesus himself shares the yoke with us.  This insight which Elton first spoke about at First Baptist Church in Cleveland in 1949, developed into the idea of the Yokefellows ministry.

        Following the Handel aria, the keynote speaker would address the conference.  The speakers included the well-known Presbyterian pastor D. James Kennedy and Richard Halvorsen, chaplain of the United States Senate, and other Christian authors and thinkers.  Some years Dr. Trueblood himself gave the keynote speech.  In the case of Kennedy and Halvorsen, I got to be a personal attendant while they were with us.

Saturday mornings, at 7 am, there would be a prayer gathering at the Stout Meetinghouse on the Earlham campus.  A speaker would bring a brief message and the rest of the meeting would be like unprogrammed Quaker worship.  I spoke out of the silence a couple of times.  My words were well-received.  I always wanted to be the designated speaker to open the prayer gathering someday, but that never happened.  After the prayer meeting, we had breakfast and then either some break-out session or panel discussions or something of that nature.  The conference ended about noon.

I really believe, if one thinks about the life of total spontaneity which epitomized Loran Helm, and the life of discipline which characterized Elton Trueblood, there is no doubt God was more honored by the Trueblood approach.  Patterns are important in the Bible, such as the great detail with which the Tabernacle is described.  When people came there to bring their offerings, they were to bring the best of what they had. I cannot tell you how many times I have heard Elton Trueblood say, “Deliberate mediocrity is a heresy and a sin.”  Even in an unprogrammed Quaker meeting where there is no official “sermon,” Elton insisted that meaningful ministry had to be a result of discipline and preparation.  Anything worthwhile was worthy of a person’s best efforts.  I learned from Elton Trueblood the importance of intentionality.

Words fail me to try to describe the cognitive dissonance the chasm between these two approaches left me in.  I do know I did not handle that dissonance well and made some extremely regrettable choices in my personal life, in ministry, and in my studies.  I felt like I was being pulled apart.  This dissonance grew louder and louder until I separated myself from Loran Helm and his fellowship.

There is no doubt in my mind that I made the right decision.  In the end it came down to comparing fruit. Is that not what our Lord said to do? “By their fruits shall you know them.”  The fruit of one was a controlling, discounting presence which held me to be pitiable and tolerated but not someone who God would ever be able to minister through.  The other was the fruit of loving nurture and care, encouragement, and not caring who got the credit for anything as long as I was healthy and happy.  Elton Trueblood loved me, and it was evident from how he related with me.  Loran Helm said he loved me, but in the end he did not, and it showed by the suspicion with which he treated me.  The claim he made to be someone who loved everyone as Jesus loved them became a claim which I could see was clearly false.  Somehow, the Holy Spirit impressed me to ask myself a question.  “Would Jesus treat me the way Loran Helm does?”  The answer was an unequivocal “NO.”



[1] Newby, James R.  Elton Trueblood: Believer, Teacher & Friend. Harper & Row.  1990, xv.

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